
I have officially said goodbye to my 20s. Never mind I have been 30 years old for the last year. For some reason being 31 made it that much more real that 20's is in the past. I haven't given it too much thought as to how I really feel about being in the 30s. Although I get the feeling I will probably like it much more than being in the 20s.
20's for me was being a newlywed and trying to figure out who I am as an adult. Which meant it was just drama city. Not as dramatic of course as from 14-19 years old, but nothing can match teenage angst.
I wondered if I should be going through some pre-mid-life crisis, but seems kinda silly since once I think about it I am really living the life I have always wanted. Most importantly I think where I live has changed my total outlook on what it means to grow old.
My neighbors are some of the coolest people I know. My older neighbors are especially cool. I think it was a few years ago when I realize one truth. People might grow old on the outside but they are really just teenagers in the inside. I see so many retirement age people having the time of their life with their spouse who they are still amazingly in love with. It makes me look forward to that stage of my life and makes growing old something to look forward to.
So, to all the really cool people I know: Thanks!
ps. my birthday cake was a flan from Betos. I LOVE flan so my husband wisely used it as my birthday cake.
pss. It is also of note that apparently all the drama of the newlywed years has taught him the wisdom of putting 3 candles on the "cake" instead of 31.